目的：探讨亲子关系与自我分化的关系，以及同伴关系、恋爱关系在亲子关系与自我分化关系中的调节作用。方法：以410名大学生为被试，采用大学生自我分化量表和关系质量问卷对自我分化、亲子关系、同伴关系和恋爱关系进行测评。结果：①在高同伴冲突性组中，父子冲突性能显著预测自我分化（simple slope=-0.75，t=-6.25，P<0.001）；在低同伴冲突性组中，父子冲突性也能显著预测自我分化（simple slope=-0.33，t=-2.54，P<0.01），但预测力相对较弱。②在高恋爱冲突性组中，母子亲密性能显著预测自我分化（simple slope=0.53，t=2.65，P<0.01）；在低恋爱冲突性组中，母子亲密性不能显著预测自我分化（simple slope=-0.11，t=-0.55，P>0.05）。③在高恋爱冲突性组中，母子冲突性能显著预测自我分化（simple slope=-0.85，t=-4.25，P<0.001）；在低恋爱冲突性组中，母子冲突性不能显著预测自我分化（simple slope=-0.37，t=-1.85，P>0.05）。结论：同伴关系在父子关系与自我分化关系中起调节作用；恋爱关系在母子关系与自我分化关系中起调节作用。

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