中国临床心理学杂志

新婚夫妻择偶标准及其与婚姻满意度的关系

作者：陈怡方晓义兰菁琚晓燕郑颖娴

单位：1. 北京师范大学心理学院发展心理研究所北京100875
2. 中国青年政治学院社会工作学院北京100089

分类号：R395.6

出版年,卷(期):页码：2015,23(2):308-311

摘要：

目的:探讨新婚夫妻择偶标准重要性、期待满足和未满足的特点及其与婚姻满意度的关系。方法:采用问卷对北京市263对结婚三年内尚无孩子的新婚夫妻进行调查。结果:①夫妻均认为配偶的道德品质最重要、社会经济地位最不重要;丈夫认为生活品味比发展前景重要,妻子反之。②婚姻满意度与择偶标准重要性无关,与期待满足正相关,与期待未满足负相关。③丈夫婚姻满意度受丈夫和妻子道德品质满足、丈夫生活品味满足,以及妻子道德品质未满足的影响;妻子婚姻满意度受妻子道德品质和发展前景的满足,以及丈夫生活品味满足的影响。结论:择偶标准存在性别差异和一致性;婚姻满意度与择偶标准重要性无关,期待满足对婚姻满意度的影响程度比期待未满足更强。

Objective:To explore the relationship of spouse selection standards and expectation on marriage with marital satisfaction in newly-weds.Methods:263 childless newly-wed couples were recruited from Beijing. A series of selfcomposed and revised questionnaires were applied to these subjects.Results:①For both husband and wife, morality was the top creterion for the standard of spouse selection for, while social and economic status were the lease important factor for spouse selection. Husbands regarded life styles as more important than development prospect, but wives thinked on the contrary way. ②Marital satisfaction had no correlation with the standards of spouse selection, and a strong correlation with the expectation on marriage. ③Husband's life styles and morality, wife's morality significantly predicted husband's marital satisfaction. Wife's morality and development prospect fulfilment and husband's life style significantly predicted wife's marital satisfaction.Conclusion:There are both different and common standards of spouse selection between men and women. Marital satisfaction is influenced by the fulfilment and dissatisfaction of expectation, and irrelevant to the significance of standards of spouse selection.

基金项目：

教育部"长江学者支持计划"

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